The Keys To Creating Successful Relationships

To life a good life you need to have successful relationships because relationships are the co-founders of happiness. When you have good relationships with your family, friends and God then your life will be in complete peace. Human beings crave affect and love and having someone care for them, which is why it’s so important we need to know the keys to creating successful relationships. The 3 keys to successful relationships are these;

  1. Listen to what the other person says
  2. Show that you care
  3. Be kind

Below I will share verses and explanations as to why these are the 3 keys to creating a successful relationship.




The most important thing you need to do when conversating with someone is to LISTEN. It’s crazy how we forget this simple concept but it has so much power. Listening enable you to actually respond to what the person says instead of responding to what your brain is thinking about what they said.

Live by the Spirit, not the Mind


Because the Bible says we should live by the Spirit, not by the mind as Galatians 5:16 says;

But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh

Too many people live through their head and it causes all kinds of problems. We weren’t designed to live through our head, our head is a thinking tool used for solving, organising and categorising information, NOT for human communication. We must live through our spirits, listen through our spirits, and respond according to our spirit. Proverbs 18:13 (NKJV) says;

He who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him.

New international version says, To answer before listening — that is folly and shame.

So you see, if you respond before listening, well, put bluntly……..

You are a fool, and I don’t say that to be mean.

So listen when you conversate to people and you will gain huge favour in business, casual and personal relationships.

Show That You Care


Show is an active word, it means to;

  1. be, allow, or cause to be visible.
  2. allow to be perceived; display.

Display that you care for the person.


How do you display that you care for the person? Well, it goes back to the first key, to listen, to respond, to acknowledge what they are saying and giving valuable solutions to what they are saying. Philippians 2:3 (NKJV) says;

Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

Esteem the other person!

That’s how you show that you care!

Encourage, edify, uplift and put life into them. Speak the word into them, hallelujah!

The last but not least key to a successful relation is to….

Be kind


The most simple and most profound conversational tactic to creating successful relationships comes down to this… .ust be kind my friend. That’s all you need.

Ephesians 4:31; Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Chris God forgave you

So there are the 3 keys to creating successful relationships. Meditate on them, practice them and internalise them into your being.

I hope you have been blessed.

God bless you in Jesus name,


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